Communication between people and how do we communicate

Hello.... I have long been interested in the differences in the social system and the search for the roots of all problems. So today limour write you a little bit about his vision of communication between people. As a rule, I ask you to comment. This will not only help me further "evolve" in this respect, but you (if necessary) to determine their attitude to this.
Foreword
Today the type of communication between people leads to constant thoughts, such as, for example - and why they can not make it up, for what they swear or why. Many of the issues which ultimately did not find a rationale, and therefore belong to the category - "not for average minds."
I wanted to talk a little bit about how I see the world because it can help some people differently to treat things that were previously thought to have unshakeable or conventional.
Speaking of people, constant swearing but as strange as it may be called normal though, would be because people do not recognize this type of communication simply not delve into it and do not climb, and as a result, they simply avoid the bad influence of the "public"
Most often people just emotionally overloaded splash out on other own "pain." However, this does not prevent us to send a man to the four winds, ignoring the cause-and-effect relationship. Many simply do not want to understand the "pain" of another person!
Fear is fit into the conversation and muddies the cards, just because a person disoriented, and as a result there is a threat to reason, without reason begins to defend because he thinks it is for us incredibly dangerous! This behavior leads to reckless behavior because people just gave their "sobriety" to the feelings. Stupidity - the inability to understand the meaning of a simple word or unwillingness to understand the interlocutor. Well for me it is the most dangerous parasite of our time.
The essence of the
Well, in the world there are probably some sort of classification but I'm not a psychologist and even more away from work on these topics than perhaps tell what to look for in the world classification I finished!
And even more - because I just want to help, so move on to the point.
Swearing is not particularly capable of anything for me bad influence on people. However, I do not use it and try to distract others from this if possible. Since thinking in this direction attracts like.
Pain like I try to just put out a basic - I understand what caused it or what was removed from life. After all, if you spill your pain worse and worse, it hardly anyone (even you) can help. After all, with time comes understanding as a result of the erroneous understanding of the pain of a man who suffered from it. If a person has learned to understand his feelings so he read my article makes no sense. Whatever it was, with emotion, she still has a cause and effect.
Fear is generally a consequence of stupidity or lack of confidence. When you are afraid of such standing in a circle of people with sticks, ready to break you. Fear - is the self-defense of last resort. He will only hurt. But logic, intelligence, experience, and can help you arrange to go out or just for orientation in an event! If a person shows signs of aggression, or is he just angry and unhappy - not easier to simply suppress bad emotions? For me, so any aggression can easily crush a joke! And if the joke fails even received "Idiot" in his "diary of life" you do not get those and most likely will still be conflict settled. Stupidity such a simple desire to see destroyed! After all, the desire to understand always pushes people to the mountain, even though "there can not be."
In life there are many contradictions, for example - when a person dies, he falls into a world where nature is by no means can be enemies, because they just do not take this as an opportunity. There at all, "idyll" a kind of - because if everything is in harmony, and the causes of problems is difficult to find. On the ground, all on the contrary - embodied soul performing tasks of learning and perception of the world. They are willing to kill for "the plan" (fate) just for the sake of this unforgettable "experience of life." Frankly thing - we do not injure each other as souls are immortal me is unacceptable and it all then forgotten or erased. I would like a world where all the things that create problems simply do not. But this is probably not pleased souls or simply deprives the soul of emotions and experiences they would have to take already from other planets. In short, we like the part of the world entities (souls), but we have a separate self-sustaining structure.
As I understood the world - we are creating a self that we want. But the choice of destiny is not a sign that the soul is bound, in this embodiment, to kill or be rude, it's just cause and effect. We built the world and get the balls we are. Though the essence. So it is a pity that there is no memory of the past because we understand happiness without swearing we would have stopped.
Now write a little, I understand that it's hard to describe why I'm such a insult to my address or to cry in the same direction. But modeling these events in mind, I just know that they have no reason to. Or is it just silly to me to shout the man standing next to you. Emotions I had long been accustomed to contain at all levels. Only when the adrenaline hits, I just feel increasing physical strength (capacity). Here I will say for example - you goat so I that I must take offense?
After all, there is the reason for these words! And if not, so much the more, the man turns himself offended. In the end, I simply have no sense of strain. While some people respond to different stimuli in different ways, though the most immediately apparent reason. And if you take it to heart will go on just harder! Sometimes, when someone tells me I'm wrong or I'm looking for a way to convince people (agree dubolomnaya system of the world - to try and form the mind prove the fallacy of understanding). Or I draw experience from these words, and I see where I should change direction. Sometimes they say so just like, well, want to hurt him because people wrote bad things, he says that you are not immune to the topic at any incredible reason - such as your stupidity.
However, the logic always tells me that the reason he had to say so as much as I have hair on his head, and more. Why would I look for the real reason - how many people have many opinions. We create our own understanding of the world is on a variety of things though like our very birth and brings with it a variety of individuals by hundreds of reasons. Each person varies and is an ongoing process (well, if he wants to or has a lot of life events). There is always the one who can not change a diehard opinion or direction. If you think so is all of us) and there is no reason to build this panic. We are constantly confronted with pictures of the world that other people have built.
Afterword
Simply say so, is the essence of the whole, find it and you're on a horse!
Without wishing to develop you will not develop. Want to understand everything in the world as it is - make no mistake, it is only the power of God, the world is shaped by us, and we also challenged.
Soul knows the light is better than our mind - feel the inner voice, not the desires and feelings.
We are all one - insulting someone you insult yourself! Man is not a species, we are all different but we are all reflections of each other.
A correctly-formed understanding of life is not able to harm another person. Do you still believe that peace is possible? Explain in comments. As I write this - for me it is important to every opinion and your comments may help correct look not only for themselves but also on the world!