Fear of abandonment

What is abandoholism?
You've heard of food-oholism, work-oholism, shop-oholism and, of course, alcoholism. Now here comes another, most insidious, addictive pattern - aband-oholism. Abandoholism is one of Outer Child's most insidious patterns.
Abandoholism is a tendency to become attracted to unavailable partners. Many abandonment survivors are caught up in this painful pattern.
Abandoholism is similar to the other 'oholisms, but instead of being addicted to a substance, you're addicted to the emotional drama of heartbreak. You pursue hard-to-get partners to keep the romantic intensity going, and to keep your body's love-chemicals and stress hormones flowing.
What makes someone an abandoholic?
Abandoholism sets in when you've been hurt so many times that you've come to equate insecurity with love. Unless you're pursuing someone you're insecure about, you don't feel in love.
Conversely, when someone comes along who wants to be with you, that person's availability fails to arouse the required level of insecurity. If you can't feel those yearning, lovesick feelings, then you don't feel attracted, so you keep pursuing unavailable partners.
You become psychobiologically addicted to the high stakes drama of an emotional challenge and the love-chemicals that go with it.
Abandoholism is driven by both fear of abandonment and fear of engulfment.
When you're attracted to someone, it arouses a fear of losing that person. This fear causes you to become clingy and needy. You try to hide your insecurity, but your desperation shows through, causing your partners to lose romantic interest in you. They sense your emotional suction cups aiming straight toward them and it scares them away.
Fear of engulfment is at the opposite end of the spectrum. It occurs when someone is pursuing you and now you're the one pulling back. You feel engulfed by that person's desire to be with you. When fear of engulfment kicks in, you panic. Your feelings shut down. You no longer feel the connection. The panic is about your fear of being engulfed by the other person's emotional expectations of you. You fear that the other person's feelings will pressure you to abandon your own romantic needs.
Fear of engulfment is one of the most common causes for the demise of new relationships, but it is carefully disguised in excuses like: "He just doesn't turn me on." Or "I don't feel any chemistry." Or " She's too nice to hold my interest. "Or" I need more of a challenge. "
Abandoholics tend to swing back and forth between fear of abandonment and fear of engulfment. You're either pursuing hard-to-get-lovers, or you're feeling turned off by someone who IS interested in you.
What is Abando-phobism?
Abandophobics are so afraid of rejection that they avoid relationships altogether.
Abandophobics act out their fear of abandonment by remaining socially isolated, or by appearing to search for someone, when in fact they are pursuing people who are unattainable, all to avoid the risk of getting attached to a real prospect - someone who might abandon them sooner or later.
There is a little abandophobism in every abandoholic.
For both abandoholics and abandophobics, a negative attraction is more compelling than a positive one.
You only feel attracted when you're in pursuit. You wouldn't join any club who would have you as a member, so you're always reaching for someone out of reach.
How do abandoholism and abandophobism set in?
These patterns may have been cast in childhood. You struggled to get more attention from your parents but you were left feeling unfulfilled, which caused you to doubt your self-worth. Over time, you internalized this craving for approval and you learned to idealize others at your own expense. This became a pattern in your love-relationships.
Now as an adult, you recreate this scenario by giving your love-partners all of your power, elevating them above yourself, recreating those old familiar yearnings you grew accustomed to as a child. Feeling emotionally deprived and "less-than" is what you've come to expect.
Why does the insecurity linger?
Recent scientific research shows that rather than dissipate, fear tends to incubate, gaining intensity over time. Insecurity increases with each romantic rejection, causing you to look to others for something you've become too powerless to give yourself: esteem. When you seek acceptance from a withholding partner, you place yourself in a one-down position, recreating the unequal dynamics you had with your parents or peers. You choreograph this scenario over and over.
Conversely, you are unable to feel anything when someone freely admires or appreciates you.
This abandonment compulsion is insidious. You did not know it was developing. Until now you didn't have a name for it: Abandoholism is a new concept.
Insecurity is an aphrodisiac.
If you are a hard-core abandoholic, you're drawn to a kind of love that is highly combustible. The hottest sex is when you're trying to seduce a hard-to-get lover. Insecurity becomes your favorite aphrodisiac. These intoxicated states are produced when you sense emotional danger - the danger of your lover's propensity to abandon you the minute you get attached.
At the other end of the seesaw, you turn off and shut down when you happen to successfully win someone's love. If your lover succumbs to your charms - heaven forbid - you suddenly feel too comfortable, too sure of him to stay interested. There's not enough challenge to sustain your sexual energy. You interpret your turn-off as his not being right for you.
How about following your gut?
If you're an abandoholic, following your gut is probably what got you into these patterns in the first place. Your gut gets you to pursue someone who makes your heart go pitter pat, not because he's the right one, but because he arouses fear of abandonment. And your gut gets you to avoid someone who is truly trustworthy, because he doesn't press the right insecurity buttons.
Enrich your mind. Follow your wisdom. But until you overcome your abandonment compulsion, don't follow your gut - it will only get you into trouble - because your gut tells you that unavailable people are attractive

Fear distorts the space

Snake crawling on the person can be more than he seems. Fear can distort the perception of approaching objects, making the distance to underestimate the threat. These are the findings of a study published in the journal Current Biology.
"Our results suggest that emotions and perception is not completely separable in the mind - says psychologist at Emory University (Ga.), co-author of the study. - Fear can affect the very basis of how we perceive the world around us. These results are important for understanding the clinical phobias. "
Lorenzo led the research with Matthew Longo, a psychologist from Birkbeck College (University of London).
Usually a person is well developed as understanding when approaching the object will be selected him closely, and the reaction in the form of evasion or block object if necessary. The researchers conducted an experiment to test the effect of fear on the accuracy of these skills.
Participants in the study assessed the time to "touch" them the images on a computer screen. Pictures increased in size during the second, simulating the approach of an object. Each subject had to press a button at a time when it seemed the object could "encounter" with him.
Participants were more likely to underestimate the time to approach frightening objects, such as a snake or a spider. If scary objects, such as the approach of a rabbit or a butterfly, an underestimation was not.
"We have shown that the type of the object affects the perception of his approach. If we fear something, we believe that it will get to us soon" - says Longo.
"The most amazing thing is - adds Lorenzo - that we can predict how the subject closer contact time opredeyaya the level of fear of the object. The more a person is afraid, for example, spiders, the more it" moves "time approach."
While we can not say exactly what the cause of this underestimation. We may think that the terrible object is moving faster than it really is. Perhaps the fear of increasing the size of the "personal space", "which is usually limited to a length of an arm.
"We plan to determine the true cause for further research. This will allow us to shed light on the mechanics of the basic aspects of spatial perception and the processes that underlie specific phobias" - said Lorenzo.

...Your Awakening Cost You

Have you noticed a change in your relationships with other people lately? Is it sometimes difficult or awkward to talk to others about spiritual topics? Do you, at times, feel alone in your beliefs? Have you lost contact with any long time friends recently? You are not alone!
I'm fortunate to have a lot of Facebook friends who post similar types of links. Too many times, I see a lot of people who talk the talk but are afraid to walk the walk, due to being ridiculed for their thoughts and posts (GROUPTHINK). I've lost some longtime friends because of this but have made many, many new ones. Once the ego is released, you no longer worry about conformity and peer pressure.
Groupthink is a psychological phenomenon that structures various belief systems within a group of people while discouraging individual creativity and independent thinking. Even within a group of individuals who are spiritually awakened, you will find groupthink.
If you look at the recorded history of mankind, you'll find that this history is merely someone's interpretation of a landmark event or evolutionary process, backed by eyewitness testimonial, scientific data, video or faith. The actual truth may be hidden or distorted for many reasons, but mostly for control and power. Look no further than the origins of mankind and you'll find a plethora of creation myths from all cultures with varying dates of our existence. Who's right?
When you talk to people about these topics, they tend to remain inside the box with a belief system that supports religion's story of creation, which dates mankind back to 4000 BC If you raise questions about our true origins, it tends to separate people and relationships between those who think outside the box versus those who think inside the box. When these topics arise within relationships, they often create dissention. It's hard for anyone to admit they've been deceived for so long and even more difficult to admit they were possibly wrong in their assumptions.
This is a prime example of how our educational systems keep us locked inside the box without questioning anything about what we've been taught. Those who remain inside the box are afraid of what others might think if they venture outside the box, so they remain complacent and subservient while conforming to what society dictates rather than relying on their own discernment and judgment. People could live their entire lives pretending to be what society expects them to be and not even know it!
From an ego perspective, our thoughts are basically cultivated by what we've learned from our family, friends, educational systems and religious beliefs, but what have we truly been taught? What can we say about anything that wasn't regurgitated to us by someone else?
As evidenced by past life regressions, our previous lives and soul history remain dormant in our cellular DNA and can be recalled through our subconscious minds through hypnotherapy. Within your cellular DNA, you actually remember being back with the Source along with all of the things you wanted to accomplish during this incarnation, as well as all of the challenges you wanted to overcome and all of the people who would lead you to where you are. This includes the people that have come and gone from our lives.
Sometimes, we project to be someone that we expect others to see in us. In psychology, this is referred to as the shadow self, where we project an identity that conforms to how other people may perceive us versus being true to who we really are. Some people may find out that they never knew who they were because they lived their lives through the expectations of how others will perceive them.
Those who have begun their spiritual journeys may also be confronting these issues, which initially creates cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance occurs when you get an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding conflicting ideas simultaneously. This is the transition period that many of us have gone through, where our beliefs have changed, yet we're unsure about relating these new ideas to our friends and family, due to fear or rejection.
As our spiritual journeys continue, we become more comfortable within our own beliefs and less concerned about how our friends and family view this awakening. This is when the ego becomes separated from the self and fear is dissolved by love. At this juncture, we begin to talk to acquaintances, as well as friends and family, about spiritual and metaphysical topics, with less regard about what they might think of us or how we may be perceived by others.
In time, spirituality will be the predominant frame of mind and it's likely that those who have strayed from us will be the first in line to ask for help in adjusting to the new paradigm.
Remember this: You are not alone! Those who truly love you will stand by you, no matter what. Those people who are no longer part of our lives have already played their role in helping us find out who we truly are. Sometimes, it takes polarity to be able to differentiate who we are and where we're going. This is where the unawakened help immensely, by providing that contrast which allows us to see the differences.
Envision each awakened person across the planet holding a candle. While your individual candle may not seem like a lot of light, it greatly contributes to making the world FULL of light and keeps us connected, no matter how far apart we may be. While it may be painful to lose some dear friends, think about what they have brought to your life and why.

Chances are, you'll end a few old relationships with people who were, at one time, very close to you, only to create new relationships with like-minded people. Forgive yourself, as well as your friends, if you feel badly about this. They came into your life for a reason a season or a lifetime:
Reason, Season, or Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they 'll die. Sometimes they 'll walk away. Sometimes they 'll act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. THEY bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. THEY may teach you something you have never done. THEY usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Ascension Symptoms

Know that although our evolutionary process is rapidly accelerating, along with the New higher vibrational energies, we are all experiencing these changes in our own way and in our own time, according to who we are and according to our coding and plan before birth. In addition, generally speaking, our ascension process relates to how we each run our own individual energy, and what our beliefs and experiences are (in other words, how we are wired and how we vibrate). These things can be changed and will also change automatically as we clear and embody more light within ourselves. For the highly sensitive, psychic and those very open to the higher realms, the ascension process can be a bit more challenging.
(Note: Of course, not all of these symptoms can be attributed to the ascension process. Please follow your own inner guidance and consult a health care professional as needed).
* Feeling as though you are in a pressure cooker or in intense energy; feeling stress. Remember, you are adjusting to a higher vibration and you will eventually adjust. Old patterns, behaviors and beliefs are also being pushed to the surface. There is a lot going on inside of you!
* A feeling of disorientation; not knowing where you are; a loss of a sense of place. You are not in 3D anymore, as you have moved or in the process of moving into the higher realms.
* Unusual aches and pains throughout different parts of your body. You are purifying and releasing blocked energy vibrating at 3D while you are vibrating in a higher dimension.
* Waking at night between 2 and 4 am As you progress, waking at 5 am Much is going on in your dream state. You can't be there for long lengths of time and need a break. This is also the "cleansing and releasing" hour.
* Memory loss. Difficulty accessing words. A great abundance of short term memory loss and only vague remembrances of your past. You are in more than one dimension at a time, and going back and forth as part of the transition (you are experiencing a "disconnect"). Also, your past is part of the Old, and the Old is forever gone. Being in the Now is the way of the New World!
* "Seeing" and "hearing" things. You are experiencing different dimenions as you transition, all according to how sensitive you are and how you are wired.
* Loss of identity. You try to access the Old you, but it is no longer there. You may not know who you are looking at in the mirror! You have cleared much of your old patterns and are now embodying much more light and a simpler, more purified divine you. All is in order .... you're OK.
* Feeling "out of body". You may feel as though someone is talking, but it is not you. Our bodies are the last to catch up and are not in the same place as the rest of us. In addition, this phenomenon can also occur as it is our natural defense mechanism of survival when we are under acute stress or feeling traumatized or out of control. Your body is going through a lot and you may not want to be in it. At one point, my ascension guide told me that this was a way of easing the transition process, and that I did not need to experience what my body was going through.
* Periods of deep sleeping. You are resting from all the acclimating and are integrating, as well as building up for the next phase.
* Heightened sensitivities to your surroundings. Crowds, noise, foods, TV, other human voices and various other stimulations are barely tolerable. You also overwhelm very easily and become easily overstimulated. You are tuning up! Know that this will eventually pass.
* Dizziness, loss of balance, back and neck pain, ringing in the ears, "gritty" eyes, blurred vision, insomnia, and heart palpitations with difficulty breathing.
* Headaches.
* Crying about anything, whether wonderful or sad.
* Not remembering the meaning of anything.
* Difficulty in remembering what you did or who you talked to a day or sometimes just an hour before. In the higher realms, reality is very much in the moment. If we do not hold something in our consciousness, it simply ceases to exist. We have no attachments. We are creating our own world around us through our beliefs and thoughts and what we do not "hold onto" does not exist. Everything is brand new as we are starting completely over, moment to moment. We can tap into whatever we choose to at any moment and create and experience just that. This state comes and goes, but is practice for living in the higher realms. It can feel a bit creepy when it occurs.
* You do not feel like doing anything. You are in a rest period, "rebooting". Your body knows what it needs. In addition, when you begin reaching the higher realms, "doing" and "making things happen" becomes obsolete as the New energies support the feminine of basking, receiving, creating, self-care and nurturing. Ask the Universe to 'bring' you what you want while loop you are enjoying yourself and having fun!
* An intolerance for lower vibrational things (of the 3D) reflected in conversations, attitudes, societal structures, healing modalities, etc. THEY literally make you feel "sick" inside. You are in a higher vibration and your energies are no longer in alignment. You are being "pushed" to move forward ..... to "be" and create the New. In addition, you may feel like staying home or just being alone as much of everything "out there" no longer matches the higher vibration of YOU.
* A loss of desire for food. Your body is adjusting to a new, higher state of being. Also, part of you does not want to be here anymore in the Old.
* A sudden disappearance of friends, activities, habits, jobs and residences. You are evolving beyond what you used to be, and these people and surroundings no longer match your vibration. The New will soon arrive and feel so-ooo much better!
* You absolutely cannot do certain things anymore. When you try to do your usual routine and activities, it feels downright awful. Same as above.
* Days of extreme fatigue. Your body is losing density and going through intense restructuring.
* A need to eat often along with what feels like attacks of low blood sugar. Weight gain (especially in the abdominal area). A craving for protein. You are requiring an enormous amount of fuel for this ascension process. Weight gain with an inablilty to loose it no matter what you do is one of the most typical experiences. Trust that your body knows what it is doing.
(Note: The body seems to need this extra weight for processing and holding these New higher vibrations. In addition, the liver goes on overdrive as it is rapidly processing and detoxing. An overtaxed liver can lead to abdominal weight gain and frequent waking around 3 am (the liver hour in oriental medicine). Liver supports that can be helpful are milk thistle, casual walks, breathing and trusting in the future.)
* Experiencing emotional ups and downs; weeping. Our emotions are our outlet for release, and we are releasing a lot.
* A wanting to go Home, as if everything is OVER and you do not belong here anymore. We are returning to the Source. Everything IS over. (But many of us are staying to experience and create the New World). Also, our old plans for coming have been completed.
* Feeling you are going insane, or must be developing a mental illness of some sort. You are rapidly experiencing several dimensions and greatly opening. Much is available to you now. You are just not used to it. Your awareness has been heightened and your barriers are gone. This will pass and you will eventually feel very at Home like you have never felt before, as Home is now here.
* Anxiety and panic and feelings of hysteria. Your ego is losing much of itself and is afraid. It may feel as if everything is ending (most of everything is!). Your system is also on overload. Things are happening to you that you may not understand. You are also losing behavior patterns of a lower vibration that you developed for survival in 3D. This may make you feel vulnerable and powerless. These patterns and behaviors you are losing are not needed in the higher realms. This will pass and you will eventually feel so much love, safety and unity. Just wait!
* Depression. The outer world may not be in alignment with the New, higher vibrational you. It does not feel so good out there. You are also releasing lower, darker energies and you are "seeing" through them. Hang in there!
 * Vivid, wild and sometimes violent dreams. You are releasing many, many lifetimes of lower vibrational energy. Many are now reporting that they are experiencing beautiful dreams. Your dreamstate will eventually improve and you will enjoy it again. Some experience this releasing while statement awake. My mother commented one day that she believed I was having nightmares in the daytime!
* Night sweats and hot flashes. Your body is "heating" up as it burns off residue.
* Your plans suddenly change in mid-stream and go in a completely different direction. Your soul is balancing out your energy. It usually feels GREAT in this new direction, as your soul knows more than you do! It is breaking your "rut" choices and vibration.
* You have created a situation that seems like your worst nightmare, with many "worst nightmare" aspects to it. Your soul is guiding you into "stretching" into aspects of yourself where you were lacking, or into "toning down" aspects where you had an overabundance. Your energy is just balancing itself. Finding your way to peace through this situation is the test you have set up for yourself.
This is YOUR journey, and your soul would not have set it up if you weren't ready. You are the one who finds your way out and you will. Looking back, you will have gratitude for the experience and be a different person.

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Cosmic Fusion exercises establish the spiritual body firmly in the lower abdomen, where Chi energy is gathered and distributed to all parts of the physical body. The fully illustrated exercises in this book also show how to collect and channel the greater energies of the stars and planets. By "fusing" all these different energies together, a harmonious whole is created, a unity of what is above and below. As heavenly and earthly forces are brought into balance, the life perfectly suited to the practitioner manifests, allowing the spirit body to prepare to move into worlds beyond - and back.

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Biofield and the problem of upcoming contacts with Supercivilizations

If we assume that the brain of an ordinary normal human being loaded, or more precisely involved in the 1 0 - 1 5% capacity, then the question arises, what does the rest of it, and if it works at all? If it works, what it shows activity?
What is a dream, the dream and what it needs the body and the brain in particular?
Enough to start, the rest of the questions and answers will follow the course of the presentation.
Owing to the nature of presentation of the preceding chapters, we have come to the conclusion that as a result of long-term multiple-adjustments in the evolution of higher animals, specifically primates with a representative of the family of monkeys, the representatives of super-civilization on Earth was formed qualitatively different from all others, a new species - Nomo Sapiens.
Artificial physiological correlations of primates that led to the disappearance of the tail, that heritage is transmitted to humans has led to a decrease in the role of the spinal cord and increase activation of the brain. Bringing properties of the internal self-organization in the brain, was the beginning of the emergence and development of human intelligence.
Having done all this, and initially to start up the human brain in a smart direction, representatives supercivilizations felt his mission done and basically left the individual and humanity as a whole, at rest, thus introducing him to develop further under its own laws.
It is worth a little thought, and all becomes clear with the incomprehensible 10-15% of our brain capacity. We realize that our brain has enormous hidden opportunities. As early as the Bronze Age, when, presumably, the percentage is measured only a few units, it, nevertheless, has made it impossible to display intelligence and began thus distinguished man in a special way, of all the animals. Developing people, developing society - increased and will increase the coefficient of brain downloads.
To the question, could the representatives supercivilizations artificially inject or somehow incorporated initially higher rate? In principle, yes. But it was hardly logical and normal. Presumably, they were aware of the principles of natural order and obviously did not see the need for primitive man, constructing basic living or hunting with a bow and stick an excellent knowledge of differential and integral calculus.
By the way, organizing regular type, they laid in his brain is pretty great opportunities, as evidenced by the temporary peaks paleokultur. But remaining generally not in demand, due to the overall low level of development, gradually going down and faded down to zero, which leads to the degradation of the next generated type.
A similar analogy can be seen in these days in the development of computers. The principles developed by von Neumann at the binary code, led to a monster in size, but the baby on the possibilities of the first computers. Modern computer, in those days, would have been just unclaimed, it simply would not understand.
You can once again stress that created man, they gave him the brain capacity to self-development. And it's the perfect tool for all time.
Now that we are talking about a 10-15% utilization of the brain, it must be understood not in the sense that 1/10 or 1/8 of the brain is active, and the rest involved knows what. Here, everything is much easier and much more difficult time.
As we realize that the main part of the brain are neurons, and the basic functional, combining them into some groups called domains. Entire brain, to the last of his cell, always works. Load factor depends on the systemic interconnectedness and interrelatedness of forms.
Under systemic interconnectedness means that the number of local domain systems involved in a particular process of the brain.
Domain local system formed from a certain number of neurons or their quantitative set. Under the local associations can be understood as the neurons that are directly adjacent to each other, but this is not a strict condition of their localization.
System interrelation defined types of interactions: chemical, electrical or field. The first two - it is usually intra-species interaction. Field, the main cross-domain. This is a cross-domain communication field, we call thought.
Improving the performance of the brain can go on channels:
1. Growth of domains, with the transition of the integrated structures into more complex, with the formation of intra-ridomennyh subsystems.
2. Increasing the number of domains, because the same neuron can belong to one, several, or a range of domains.
3. On the way, active and functional loading domains. By this definition, we do not mean that other, as a kind of memory.
It's basic, but there are many others.
In the system, and the relationship of individual neurons in the first domain, the main role is played by the interaction of the field. The presence of field interaction in the human brain determines his brain unlike any other animal. In the human brain, it not only exists, but also has the properties of the "address-ties" and "focus."
Under "Address" means that a particular domain of the brain can respond, or when exposed to a specific field in another domain, to engage in joint work.
"Focus" - is on the contrary, when a domain is to include in their work a particular domain, or as necessary to whole groups of domains in other brain regions.
According to the type of their functional activity domains, in turn, divided into active, dormant, neutral, etc.
The set of active domains formed in the cortex and in the volume of the brain certain centers. It can be visual, auditory, etc. Besides actively involved neurons and domains in the brain, there are neutral and dormant domains.
Neutral - those domains that in the active work of the brain, usually not involved - a kind of reserve.
Dormant - domains, which, as of a given situation, can be transformed into active mode, or vice versa, in the neutral state.
Therefore, when we are talking about a 10-15% utilization of the brain, it should be understood as the number of active-working neurons to the total number. On those areas of the brain with a majority of neutral and dormant domains, as they say on the parts of the brain are in a subconscious state.
In addition to these three groups there are others. In particular, the domain controllers. These are the domains that include more performers. They convert all intracerebral processes in real-materialized form. It is these domains that are grouped in certain centers, issue or another, mentally controlled commands to muscles in the arms, legs, and all the other organs of the body, transform thoughts into speech form and have a number of other functions. With domain controller connected is a physiological phenomenon, like a dream. Take a closer look.
In modern biological and medical literature a physiological nature of sleep is caused by the need of some intracerebral discharge, called inhibition of certain parts of the cortex of the brain.
As a first approximation, this definition, in fact, contradicts nothing out of what we have said, although little to explain.
Domain controllers are not only display information from the brain to the periphery, but also work in reverse, spreading to the brain signals in certain portions of it. On them falls the greatest burden in the brain. Changes in the quality or parameters in their work appears in the form of fatigue, as it directly comes into play at work think tanks and domain subsystems. The role of domain registrars, under certain conditions, can take on the other, the number of dormant or neutral. But this is only part of the problem. The second is the varying degree of congestion of certain domains. Sleep is essential to the brain for its internal reset.
For example. That domain, which is now in the active-running mode during sleep can go into a dormant. A dormant assumes its functions. Therefore, the term "slow" in the conventional sense, was not chosen at all, but good luck.
DREAM is intracerebral functional domain reboot systems.
Reboot domain accompanied intracerebral field fluctuations, which leads to the phenomenon of dreaming.
Speaking of human fatigue, we are talking primarily about being tired brain. Physiologically, the human body does not need to sleep. Physical activity can be removed quite successful holiday. It is not tired or need sleep heart, lungs and all other organs of permanent life support. Sleep - it is a privilege and a vital necessity for the brain. With the improvement of its work, the need for sleep will be reduced, and, ideally, over time, lose the need to sleep in the way, as there is now.
Neutral domains, in turn, perform in a number of specific brain functions.
1. Without taking a direct part in aktivnorabotayuschih domains (thought processes), they are the transmitters of these processes from one domain and parts of the brain to another.
2. Passing through an interaction of active-work domains, they record in their structures, most of them. This phenomenon we call memory, or rather deep memory. Memory is the prerogative above all dormant and aktivnorabotayuschih domains.
3. Their non-participation in some of the other domains in the process, does not mean complete indifference to them. Sometimes there is their spontaneous incorporation, by matching some common characteristic parameters, which leads to the inclusion in this or that thought process, entire arrays, unused in that neutral domains. This leads to severe brain activation, which in common parlance is called sometimes mental illumination. More or less controlled by the inclusion in the work of neutral domains leads to the appearance of a man of some ability. For example, the extraordinary mathematical abilities, the ability to compose poetry, write music, etc.
4. As a kind of transmitters or repeaters field interactions between the active-operating domains, neutral domains, moreover, are more repeaters these interactions. Therefore, the weakest idea originated in a particular active-running domain, can not die out immediately, receiving direct support from neutral. If a thought, which arose soon disappears, the reason for this lies in the passivity to it or rejecting it aktivnorabotayuschimi other domains.
This is just small touches to the point vnutrimozgo of new processes. Clear to everyone that in fact there is much more complicated and diverse. From all this diversity we highlight the main thing.
In the process of the brain inside it appears biological-information field, which is an abbreviated form may sound like binopole. It is called internal. But internal binopole can not close in on itself just inside the skull shell head. It exists outside of it, forming an external binopole person. Before considering its essence, make some explanations.
In addition to its real physical effect, ie the body itself, with all its parts and organs, one is surrounded by two fields: the well-known fact and bio binopolya.
Biofield - physiological and functional, energy is essentially a function of vital organs, body parts and especially the human spinal cord. It is due to the biological physical and chemical processes that occur in all cells and tissues of the body. Manifested through an energy aura background accompanying these processes through a controlled and regulated.
The collection of all biological processes in the body creates energy aura, within itself, as well as outside the body. Center of its management and regulation is the spinal cord, as It is responsible for the normal functioning of the body. The contribution of the brain in energy aura is quite inadequate. In its turn, the functional redistribution in evolution between the spinal cord and brain, leading to the fact that in its magnitude is much weaker than the human biofield biofield many higher animals, which is easily explained by the fact that the functional significance of the spinal cord of these animals is much higher than in humans .
Understanding the nature and essence of the original human biofield, hard to agree with many authors who claim the division of the human bio-field to a range of some of the outer shells. In the end, this is not a layer cake, and in addition to the separation of internal and external, any field can not be divided or otherwise differentiated layers.
Biofield like a cocoon around the person with the distance decreases in intensity. Depending on their nature, ie the physiological state of the body generates and other specific features of it, some people it can be seen in color, of different colors and shades. From the intensity and spectrum of the radiation energy background bio can be seen on the physiological state of the organism as a whole and its individual organs in the diagnostic plan.
A similar pattern is observed in nature binopolya. With the presence of a person of internal and especially external binopolya involves a lot of wonderful events. Outset that its intensity is directly related to the degree of intracerebral organization and efficiency. The lack of intelligence began in animals leads to their lack of binopolya.
Pledged representatives supercivilizations principles of self-organization in the structure of the brain in any, even the lowest level of intelligence in this or that person does so that the level of intensity of external binopolya (and count and internal) can not be below a certain level, unless it is due to physiological or pathological abnormalities or disorders. Why this is so, We'll see.
Generating internal and external binopole human brain works with one hand as the source and receiver binopolya in the space around it. On the other, as a receiver of information from other sources binopolya, ie from other people. For generating your own binopolya, receiving information and other sources of biological fields, their amplification and generation of secondary information in the surroundings of these fields correspond neutral domains. They therefore called so that the essence of the organization they are completely indifferent to what signals are coming to reinforce, whether the signals from its neighboring active-working domain or binopoley signals coming from outside.
A remarkable property of neutral domains, and, consequently, the whole brain, is that their work is not selective. This means that the full range of amplified waves they take internal and external binopoley. For this work the neutral domains, with the imposition of the priorities of its own internal fields should affect domain controllers. But the degree of perfection of the inner self of the human brain is still quite low, and so the process goes mainly to the uncontrolled level, which we call the subconscious
condition. Thanks binopolya, a person must eventually emerge and develop to the level of perfection, but five of the existing feelings, such as new qualities:
1. HYPNOSIS is the most basic property of the brain, is the ability to influence, through binopolya, on functional brain activity of other people or animals. Already have this property a lot of people, and with a special technique classes and some training, this property can develop the most people. Instinctively, he is also seen in some species of animals. It is well known hypnotic influence snakes on a rabbit. Hypnosis endowed representatives supercivilizations initial species produced in the world of ancient people, thereby giving them the main weapon of defense against predators. But having hypnosis will hardly claimed as does not see it absolutely necessary for a person in the future.
2. Telepathy - property transmission and reception of thoughts by one person from another at a distance. If the "technological" aspect of this phenomenon does not cause problems, the other piece of this property is essential. It lies in the absolute highest intellectual and spiritual culture of the people possessing these properties. It is possible that the structure of the brain provide a mechanism of protection against uncontrolled reading our thoughts to others as ever to protect the pupils of the eyes, or maybe not. But common reasoning is easy to see that this property will not be able to develop to the appropriate level, in itself, yet the overall intellectual and spiritual level of society reaches a certain minimum height. All manifestations of appearance properties will samopodavlyatsya telepathy, his very own brain. Imagine that now no one particular particular person appeared in its entirety this property, and he can not get rid of it in any way. It is safe to say that his fate is sad, especially in our country. The easiest what to expect, this is crazy.
3. Telekinesis - property contactless movement of objects by directed mental effort.
Possible, but unpromising, due to its insignificance to the application, the property. Here it is necessary to understand another such subtlety that the movement of an item is not a mental act directly on objects. It is too weak for that. But the thought processes affecting energy biofield having quite effective values ​​of its manifestations, and with it can make it. It is possible that this phenomenon will manifest other as yet unknown hidden features that greatly improve the possibilities for its practical use.
4. Clairvoyance - a property of the human brain (read man) to see events or parts of events without using any devices or appliances that are currently taking place at a great distance from the subject, as well as play in your mind past events, while not a direct witness to them. The mechanism and the nature of this phenomenon, we
considered in conjunction with the following subject. Now we note only that the property extends to reproduction in the imagination of the person only to the events of the present or past tense, but does not have the predictive properties.
All four of the above properties of the human brain, if not studied, are well known to humanity in one way or another. Fifth property is a little-known, but most of their value, based on the ability of the brain to create the external information and biological field, as follows.
Radiated, or you can say also produced in the environment, binopole particular person, independent of consciousness, desires, or some other factor, is perceived by the brain of another person or the brain of a number of people, amplified and radiated back into space. The brain of the same individual, in turn, as we have talked about it before, accepts, amplifies and re-radiate binopole others.
Thus, binopole individuals formed to create a single planetary information and biological field of the Earth. In principle, it has been around for a long time, its existence guess, but do not provide sufficient arguments to explain the mechanism of its occurrence and constant replenishment. Currently, the general information and the biological field of the Earth does not have the value it has to play in the destiny of all mankind.
Relationship of the individual with the universal field, by taking the human brain all the information of the general field, its gain and return this information back to the field, leave this field information about the man himself. It's like a business card information of each individual in the universal information field. Depending on the intellectual property of the person, his popularity, and many other qualities, the effective value or degree vnutripolevogo value of this "business card" is different for different people, but, nevertheless, brain or intellectual nature of each person has his field in the universal map. Immediately suggests some association with the concept of the soul. But the soul in the conventional sense - something conventional, and the information display in the nature of man, the real thing.
Returning to the phenomenon of clairvoyance and knowing the essence of the universal information space, is easy to explain the reasons for its manifestation. Receiving information from the field of brain, enhancing its neutral domain and inverse radiation field, occurs in an uncontrolled subconscious level. Sufficient human brain in some way to translate this information from the subconscious to the conscious state - all at once, it is clear, as in the information display contains all the information about the people now living, and the people who have already died, and all that is connected with the activity of the individual. Just a particular human brain to pick out all the huge flow through his mind, the necessary information and you will get and vision and all the information about the events and developments.
In light of the existence binopolya, unexpected ways to change the look is exotic phenomenon as spiritualism. It is clear that the ongoing sessions for the most part nothing - humbug and mystification in a well staged and acted out a play, for a certain number of persons. But, nevertheless, they are fundamentally possible and feasible, although not in this light, as we know about them.
Emotional atmosphere session samonastroy its members to communicate with a spirit of a person, the conversation before and during it, the excessive concentration of mental and physiological processes that could lead to an interaction between the conscious and unconscious processes in the brain and, consequently, access to some of the information contained in the information and biological field. Violence against his own brain, with its output for Zack riticheskie operating modes, to which he is not ready, could lead to the effects hallucinations, various imaginary visions and voices reproduction combined with some of the information obtained by a kind of violence and ignorance of the mechanism of the process going on, sometimes created picture of the real. Subsequent addition of natural, flattering and fancy these pictures dorisovyvaet and, based on the belief in its infancy all associated with spiritualism. The essence of mysticism, spiritualism binopolya simplifies to the level of natural and basic understanding.
Spiritualism was fashionable in the past and the beginning of the century, when the very aura was much weaker. Currently, it can get a lot more effective.
A case where an elderly woman suddenly began to quote verses of Vladimir Vysotsky, which he never published, and she not only did not love him, but even regarded him coolly. It is an amazing phenomenon from the outside, has a simple explanation. Vysotsky died physical body as the bodies of other people die, but it remained in the information display, as are all the other display. Once because of some random coincidences amshshtudnyh phase characteristics of information and maps of the deceased Vysotsky Hello, for some reason, women match, and yet somehow out of the subconscious state passed into the conscious, she began to quote these verses Vysotsky.
It is clear both that the degree of magnitude is present in the display of a person who lives, and who lived in particular, depends on no such thing as a memory. Here is a symbolic concept, surprisingly, gets the physical essence. The stronger and more diverse memory, in quantitative and qualitative composition of this or that person, the more the better show of it in the general field. Clear and the next thing, no matter how much was strong and unforgettable memory of a man without his own individual makeup of the general field, private information of your brain, it gradually becomes distorted, weakened by its effective size, scattered and dying. Otherwise, it probably can not be. The steady increase in the number of people on Earth, increasing the average level of intelligence, with the ever-increasing volume of information that leads to the steady load of total field, although it is intended to solve different challenges.
Possessing property receiving radiation binopolya, the human brain over time will be able to receive and translate directly into digestible form, and all the rest of the electromagnetic spectrum of wavelengths. Now, with the view to the brain it is available very small area, ranging from red to violet, inclusive, called the visible spectrum. Shorter and longer ranges of the spectrum available for our perception, except for infrared, the perceived level of sensations in the form of heat.
Without going into an analysis of the mechanics of why the brain at the moment does not have these properties, we can see that the implementation of transfer of electromagnetic waves in the visible spectrum in a form accessible to the brain, there are organs of vision, both for sound vibrations and hearing. Obviously, for the perception abilities of ultrasonic vibration, as well as the rest of the electromagnetic spectrum, the human brain must be developed, and other inner abilities. In particular, the need to develop the ability to parallel the necessary protection, as Power range and radiated electromagnetic waves surrounding us is very wide, from extremely small to large quantities.
One of the really see the feasibility of those skills is through greater interaction between binopolem and biofield. Here aura can act as a receiver, the original oscillator, and a damper, protecting binopole and brain from the powerful overload.
The closest possible cooperation between the two biofield will lead to the ability to perceive and respond, on the conscious level, the manifestation of static magnetic and electric fields.
It is well known that a number of animals and birds on an instinctive level, these abilities are manifested. For example, the ultrasonic location in bats. Predchuvstvennoe excitement of animals, particularly dogs and cats, before the earthquake. Here they respond to changes in electric and magnetic fields arising as a consequence of ongoing geological internal stresses in the earth's crust prior to earthquakes. Proved that birds orient during flights on directions of the magnetic field of the Earth.
But the most important thing for us is that in addition to all of the odds, the brain can receive and detect gravitational waves. At present, due to their negligible power, there is no physical instruments capable of performing their reception and detection. But due to the fact that the effective ability of the brain to perceive negligible signals of electromagnetic and gravitational waves by tens of orders higher than the most advanced physical devices, it opens up to man a number of unusual features, sheds light on some unusual phenomena and allows direct contact with our terrestrial civilization others, especially with super-civilization.
When we talked about the future evolution of mankind in the future, and shared stages of development of the Information and energy parameters, we are all about information and biological field it leads. But noted that the main obstacle to further development is the disparity between the technological and intellectual and spiritual component.
Understanding the perversity of this discrepancy, and realizing that somehow stop or slow down the speed of technological acceleration is impossible, and aware of the fact that man-made party, directly or indirectly leads, even to the one-sided, but, nevertheless, increase in the overall level of intelligence, and therefore a gradual increase in the average level of intracerebral activation processes, which in turn leads people to the border, where he can consciously connect your consciousness to the perception of information from the public information field. But it is well known that the great grace may turn bedoyu great, if you use it for other purposes.
Universal binopole designed specifically for the future of all people to unite intelligence into one. You can imagine what kind of intellectual power it will have, how can drastically change the whole system of life. To perform all of this requires only one - the steady growth and the achievement of certain intellectual and spiritual level of humanity. Only if this condition is mandatory for each person individually, and humanity as a whole, opening up these opportunities for development and improvement, which are difficult to predict even now.
After rising to the level of taking advantage of opportunities inherent in the universal binopo le, humanity takes the first step on its way to becoming a super-civilization with the advent of collective intelligent design.
We make one more digression. When we looked at the possibility of the emergence of rational beings as the highest stage of life in the universe, then, following the customary and traditional for yourself by, first of all considered and dealt with the mechanism of formation and intellectual manifestations in the form of individual carriers in the form of human intelligence or the like being. But this is not the only path to a reasonable start.
The initial focus we did in studying the development and evolution of the life line, leading to higher animal species, and because of the appearance of their environment Homo sapiens. Other ways we have not considered.
To comment on that substantial amount of living species on Earth are insects, we can not help, as it were left out of the consideration of their effect, unfairly eliminating insects from its scope of attention.
Significant difference insect species with common and characteristic features of other animals with sufficient evidence suggests that their introduction into mortality Genome was most likely his natural way with those habitable planets that are their original or intermediate in the development of the genome. They are characterized by greater durability and adaptability. Talk about looking at their candidates to have a reasonable principles, it would seem, is not relevant. But suddenly manifested an interesting point. Not having instincts and base capabilities to their physiological and biological nature, individual paths to a reasonable start, nature has given them a chance in this direction, in the form of possible manifestations of collective intelligent design.
For possible emergence of intelligent collective started in reasonable form is the possibility of combining a sufficiently large number of specimens of insects, some specific types, structural association. Not having any inclinations or elementary features for intelligent premises each individual specimens of insects, however, by the structure of association in the process a certain amount of life into a whole, it may be, and obviously somewhere in the universe once implemented such cases , findings in the structural associations of intelligent design. On Earth, there are quite a number of insect species that are prone to the development of this field. The best known organization of ants and bees. With its insignificant nature of each ant or bee that perform specific functions, the very nest or hive is a very structured organization that can respond adequately to the changing conditions and external influences.
Earthly conditions, obviously, did not contribute more depth and progressive development of these principles, until the emergence of intellectual inclinations, and in the future, most likely, this will not happen. But this way could be a real and possible.
Prerogative of the habitat, such as ant-inopodobnyh insects, is the largest planet with a large force of gravity, where the physical conditions did not allow for the development of large-sized species, and the structure of collective intelligence is a reasonable display before our typical as their shortcomings and certain advantages, especially s structure of the organization.
It is essentially similar to the structure of time, all mankind must come, there came to her other super-civilization. Obviously we are still far from completely discern and understand nature around us, and here we can expect many amazing discoveries.
Now, that is at present, it is not surprising binopolya role in people's lives has more negative effects than pluses.
Itself is not directly associated with the mind, but is involved in the human brain at a subconscious level, it somehow is different. For example. The well-known effects on the human condition so-called magnetic storms. Their impact on the biofield and binopole is very different, and through them they affect human health. In the first place, and to a much greater degree of exposure is subject binopole as weaker and directly related to brain activity. It is noticed that these same magnetic storms on the health of animals is no effect, which is quite natural because they lack binopolya.
The state of binopolya have and environmental factors. Global human intervention in nature leads to disruption of the natural balance, resulting in a violation occurring planetary atmospheric, geo-and gidrotokov. But the greatest harm to himself brings people. War, hatred, greed, self-interest, and all other human vices find their information on a global map binopole. You can imagine the extent to which it is clogged and continues to clog. The sooner people understand and realize this, the better for themselves and for future generations.

Nature of the Creative Passion

In any creative endeavor, there is price to be paid. That price is inescapable and unless it is paid, the creation cannot unfold. Because a creative endeavor takes one into the unknown, we don't, and can't, really know what will have to be sacrificed to pay that price. Often there is a reluctance or even fear at moving forward into the unknown.
A creative passion, or a passionate desire to create what we desire, along with supplying the energy to catalyze the creative effort, will cause one to confront their fear and find a way to move forward. It can confront the fear wisely or blindly. Sometimes it can even be reckless in it desire to move forward. Reckless action that is confined to an individual's life and does not affect anyone else, may be judged as unacceptable but it does not really concern another until the other is in some way affected.
The problem is that the price to be paid has an internal and external component. As a result of the nature of the creative process, part of that external component will need to be paid by another. Hence the other's fears, concerns and expectations become entwined with what we desire to create. How much the are entwined and can influence the creative endeavor depends on what we are choosing to create. When our creative passion is wise and can effectively deal with another's fears, concerns and / or expectations, any problems that arise can usually be effectively addressed. However, when our creative passion is blinded especially to the concerns of the other, enormous difficulties will arise and often the creative endeavor will be able to unfold. Or, if it does unfold, it will be much less than what it can be.
Because the creative passion can be blinding, passion has not always been seen in the most favorable way and / or complimentary way. Often it is seen in another or experienced as fanatical, reckless and / or blinding. Often one is blinded to the world around them when in passion. In this blindness one is not necessarily sensitive to the needs and / or concerns of others. It is here the creative passion is seen as destructive when in fact it is only trying to pay the price that must be paid for the creative endeavor to unfold.
If we look at the typical definition, we find the weakest definition of passion describes it as a strong desire or affection for some object or cause. In this regard, the object of such a desire or affection is called our passion. From a creativity perspective, our desired creation is our passion and our desire to create causes a passion to arise within our being.
Yet, there is definition of passion that is much stronger that what is state here. Passion is also said to be any intense, extreme or overpowering emotion or feeling. It is often associated with ardent affection or love if not outright intense sexual desire or lust. In keeping with this definition it is also seen as an overwhelming anger or rage and / or an outburst of strong feeling, especially and outburst of violence or anger. In fact, in the past the use of the word passion in philosophy and psychology referred to the state or condition of being "acted upon." That is, the passion overtakes an individual or where one in a passion is experienced as though they are possessed by some spirit.
There is, of course, a truth in this understanding about passion. But what is described here is really no different that enthusiasm for what is desired. The difference between enthusiasm and passion is really only whether or not that energy that gives rise to passion or enthusiasm is experienced and judged destructive.
When you are enthusiastic you entire being is enthused with energy. You are enthused with what you desire to do. Your whole life and being become animated within the enthusiasm. Yet enthusiasm is seen in a much more favorable light than passion. Enthusiasm is about having a keen or animated interest in something or a preoccupation with something. Yet to be preoccupied is only another way of say one is blinded to other things. Similarly when one is enthusiastic, one has an eager devotion to, or a fondness for, something and it causes an intense, lively interest within one's being. But that is not really any different than having an ardent affection to something. Similar to the concept of passion, there is an older use of the term enthusiasm where enthusiasm was perceived, or viewed, as supernaturally caused giving rise to religious fanaticism. Here again, that is not really any different than saying someone is possessed. The only issue is the degree of possession or control the energy exerts over the individual.
Enthusiasm is really no different than passion and a passionate single point focus. If you look at the definition of each above, you can see what is described are essentially the same thing. The real difference most often appears to be how that energy - that passion or enthusiasm - is experienced by another. In particular if that other see what one is doing as somehow threatening it is said the individual is in a blinding passion. If another is not threaten, we say the individual is just enthusiastic about whatever it is on which they are focused. In reality there is really no different between the enthusiastic and passionate individual. It is just how the energy being expressed to pay the prices of the creative effort .. How that energy is judged by another, why the energy is being expressed the particular form that it is, and how that expression is affecting the individual's life and those with whom the individual interacts are the real questions. Their answer can made the different between creating a painful transition or a faster, easier and gentler way.
What needs to be understood, as discussed under the topic of "Energy - an invariant within the creativity perspective" and "A price to pay and the minimum set of requisite experience," there will always be a sacrifice in a creative process. Something of the old must be given up to create the new. When something we don't really want needs to be sacrificed we tend to readily let go of whatever it is. However, if something we want needs to be sacrificed for the new creative effort, we then to hold onto the object rather than face the loss. What we see as negative or destructive in our creative passion or the creative passion of another is something we simply do not what to let go and are unwilling to face what we need to give up for a new creation to unfold.
It needs to be remembered, whenever one sees expressed in either the enthusiastic or passionate individual, the energy of one's creative spirit seeks to give another what itself seeks. The energy that is driving the passion or enthusiasm does not seek to harm. It seeks only to unfold the new creation. The energy seeks the free expression of its truth and seeks the same for others. It does not seek the destruction of another. However, there are facets of the existing form that may have to be destroyed to make room for the new. So there are facets of the creative process that look as thought this passion seeks to destroy. Some find this quite paradoxical. Yet it is realizing that Creation is magical enough to allow each of us to live true to the truth of our own being and yet allow the other to remain free to do the same. That includes being magical enough to find a way that can address the concerns, fears and attachments that make paying the price of a creative endeavor seem destructive.
How an individual acts in response to the energy and how they go about destroying the old to create the new is another question. It can be done in a faster, easier and / or gentler way if we set the intention to do so. However, as stated previously, most are creating subconsciously so they never really pay attention to what they are doing and why. For almost all situations, there are faster ways, there are easier ways and there are gentler ways. The question is are you or the other sufficiently creativity aware and awake to create that faster, easier and gentler way.

Transformation: A Tribute to The Butterfly Within

Learn Dance with the Crystals

Connecting to Crystals

Learning to connect to or dance with crystals is an easy process and anyone can do it. There are so many different methods, just like the different dances in ballroom dancing, of connecting to the mineral kingdom; however the best way is to find the one that works for you. You will also find that as you practice you become a "better dancer" and quite soon connecting to or dancing with them becomes second nature.You may even find you are able to make the connection from across a room or by simply looking at one; in fact you could be aware of a particular crystal the minute you walk into a room, without even seeing it.
Connecting Physically ,Start slowly.
Choose one of your favourite crystals or one that really talks to you. I always suggest that you start by using single clear quartz terminations.
Hold it in your dominant hand and point the termination or point of the crystal into the palm of your other hand. Not touching, hold it about half an inch above the palm of your hand.
Slowly rotate the crystal in the area above your palm. Use both a clockwise as well as anti clockwise direction.
In time you will begin to feel a slight tickling sensation in your palm.
Remember practice makes perfect so as you practice this the sensations will become more intense and soon you will be able to move the gemstone around your hand or up your arm and you will feel the energy of the crystal clearly.It is very important to note any physical sensations, feelings or thoughts you might have while working with the crystal as not all people experience connecting with gems the same way. Give yourself permission to experience them your way and you will be fascinated by how quickly you learn to interpret what you perceive.
Connecting Spiritually
To begin with use the same crystal that you used for the above exercise.
Find a comfortable position where you will not be disturbed for a while.
Sit quietly holding the stone in your left hand.
Close your eyes, take three slow deep breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth, centring yourself.
Now imagine the crystal clearly in your mind. It is important to visualize it clearly. Notice each and every part of the crystal in your mind. Once you have a clear picture of the stone in your mind you are ready to move on.
While holding the picture in your mind, allow it to grow. Clearly see the gem stone in your mind, notice every part of it and see it growing bigger and bigger until it is as big as a mountain.
In your mind's eye, walk up to the mountain of quartz in front of you and touch it with your hand, noticing that there are no boundaries between you and the crystal. Ask that you be allowed you to enter and slowly step into the mountain of quartz. You are now inside the mountain of quartz, look around and see the clarity of the quartz, the many different forms, veils and shapes inside the crystal. Take your time looking around and becoming familiar with the crystal.
Relax into the moment, enjoy being one with the stone and see a bright light coming towards you. As this light comes closer, it starts taking shape, trust what you see, perhaps a human, an animal, a tree, or even a being of light. This is the Essence of the Crystal, allow this Essence to become clearer, feel the presence and experience the moment completely.
You can now communicate freely with the Essence of the crystal. The fact that you were able to enter the crystal means you have the highest permission to be there. At this point you can ask anything you wish, program the crystal or communicate on any and all levels.
When you are finished, simply disconnect by thanking the Essence and withdrawing from the crystal.
For me this particular process is one that leaves a lasting impression. Since you are able to connect to the very Essence and Awareness of the crystal any information or questions you may have is freely shared. Exactly like tuning into a radio station, once you are able to connect to the frequency of the Essence of one you are able to connect to the Essence of any crystal or mineral.

Excess Mind/Home Baggage

The application of traditional Feng Shui practice and principles into your life can undoubtedly be of major benefit. Living as we do in a yang phase of humanity's development where science is the dominant leader, most theories have to be subjected to the rigorous testing of Cartesian and Newtonian laws. However, Feng Shui and its associated disciplines come from a more yin appreciation of ourselves, our environment, and our destiny. It is hard, though not impossible, therefore to measure much of this valuable wisdom from today's analytical yang perspective.
Much of the following is common sense, and many people are already intuitively practicing it.
All these systems are intended to enhance the vibrational level of the home and to promote a supportive atmosphere that can pervade our health, fortune and journey.
Excess Baggage
Every possession in the home has its own vibrational quality. Everything we buy, every gift we receive and any family heirloom we inherit all contain their own particular frequencies. In an ideal world, we surround ourselves with artifacts, furniture and possessions that have either a functional use or are aesthetically pleasing to the soul. Surrounding ourselves with objects that we are not happy with, that are broken, out of date, or that we seldom use are simply taking up space. Excess baggage in the home has the potential to slow down our chi, limit our perspective of a new bright future and, to a certain degree, connect us more with our past than with our future.
Before making any well-intentioned Feng Shui changes in your home, clear the decks of all excess baggage to maximize the potential for new changes to occur in your home and your life.There are three stages to undertaking this important task:
Dealing with the physical excess baggage in your home.
Dealing with the vibrational or outstanding emotional issues in your life.
Drawing from the suggestions in Section 3 where you can begin to work on your health and well-being.

STEP ONE
You need to be ruthless. Make a note of your possessions, going through the house, room by room, and be clear about what you use on a regular basis. Excess baggage is material that is either redundant, broken or has been waiting several months or years to be repaired! Old clothes, unwanted gifts, out of date magazines, old college notes, broken gadgets all fall into this category. Clothing, utensils and tools that you use on a seasonal basis are not regarded as excess baggage and can be stored away conveniently and brought out when appropriate. Try to avoid an old mistake of filling your attic or basement with boxes of junk that you promise yourself you will go through one day. Be ruthless!
If you are young or single, living in rented accommodation, think where you may have stored your excess baggage? Did you leave it in your parents' attic? Have you left it in the basement of your brother's home? If so, you need to work on this as well as, in the long term, it is not going to do them any good. Have friends, a neighbor or relative taken a job abroad and left trunks and suitcases of their baggage in your loft? If you are unclear how long you are expected to store their 'excess', contact them and clarify this point. If it looks like it is going to be a vague ongoing process, you need to be clear and get it sorted.
STEP TWO
We can easily slow down our progress in life by being too caught up with the past. On an emotional or vibrational level, reflect on what outstanding business there may be in your life. Pay particular attention to any outstanding or incomplete conversations you have had with a friend, relative, business colleague or an ex-love. Unresolved issues in our lives are very similar to untidy desks with mountains of paper work! Clearing the air, clearing the desk opens up possibilities. Take a moment to draw up a list of those you need to phone, write to, or have coffee with to resolve any misunderstanding or outstanding issues.
STEP THREE
The Metal element in Oriental healing relates to the lungs and large intestines. Both of these organs are responsible for absorbing aspects of the external world within us, as well as being responsible for the elimination of excess. The health and the efficiency of these two vital organs is naturally reflected in how well we deal with excess baggage in the world around us. Chronic breathing difficulties or digestive problems inevitably lead to a deeper physical stagnation within us and a darker, gloomier outlook on life. In other words, stagnation sets in.
If you feel this is an issue with you, make cleaning a daily ritual rather than a daily chore. Done briskly, on a reasonably empty stomach, energetically and with some uplifting music in the background, you can get the job done while at the same time recharging your chi. For my first year as a student of the Oriental healing arts in the 1970s, I had a part-time job as a cleaner. Looking back, it was the most care-free, enjoyable, invigorating and satisfying job I think I have ever held. Although a humble position, in many ways I was responsible for setting the tone of the building. It is not uncommon today to find monks who dedicate their lives to spiritual practices in monasteries, interspersing their days of study with bursts of energetic cleaning.
Naturally, prevention is considered the best cure among all the great healing systems. Keep your home brightly charged and clear of unwanted baggage and you open the doors to new possibilities. Surround yourself with junk, debris, dust and old chi and you simply attract more of the same. Do you recall as a child that you would never dream of walking across your parent's sparkling clean kitchen floor? However, if it was dirty and covered in smudge marks, you wouldn't think twice about it because your muddy footprints would not be noticed so much! Walking through a leafy litter-free suburb, you would not expect to find anyone throwing rubbish on to the pavement. However, if there is a vacant plot where somebody has already dumped some rubbish, before long you will find everyone else is doing the same. Simply speaking, this is called 'big yin attracts little yin!'

Candle Colour Healing

The candle has been used in religion, for healing and for metaphysical purposes for about as long as fire has been around.
It is a very powerful symbol for the activation of more fire and light in our lives - on physical and subtle levels.
It represents the eternal light of the soul and the connection to Source.The colour emanates its vibration to enlighten the moment and facilitate focus. Fire has always been regarded as something holy, magical and mysterious. In most societies, fire first belonged to the gods; the legend of Prometheus and the creation of humanity are but one example. Prometheus is credited with having stolen fire from the gods and given it to mortal mankind.
Fire operates in all aspects of life. From volcanic fires to the fires of ordinary body heat to that all consuming fire of passion in the belly, from the solar fires to the fires of intellect, fire's presence is felt nearly everywhere.
When we use the fires of candles, we are participating in the ritual of fire that has existed throughout the ages.
Therefore this healing practice should be seen as an ancient ceremony of creation. Look upon the unlit candle as the unlit essence of life energy in the physical body that awaits a renewing touch of fire to help restore health to body and soul. When you light its flame, imagine you are creating light where there was no light before, bringing warmth and healing where it is needed. This imaging or visualization in itself is extremely healing.
Simple Rules for Candle Use Its colour must respond with the healing required as its vibrational force is activated, released and amplified when it is lit. See this color chart:

The one you choose should be cleansed and anointed before using by rubbing with a light olive oil in an upwards direction towards the wick. This process is called "dressing the candle." It strengthens the colour so that its energies are more vibrant and activated which will make them far more effective for your purpose. Once used for a specific purpose such as in healing, it should not be used for something else as this will set up conflicting vibrations.
A strong affirmation of intention must be performed when the flame is lit as well as when it is extinguished as if you are firmly setting and locking the healing energy in place.
Get yourself a snuffer or use wet fingers to put out the flame but do not blow it out.

Healing Yourself with Coloured Candle Energy

The human aura - colors

The human aura is very sensitive to color. It reacts to the colors of clothing worn and to the colors of it's surrounding area.Color affects the subtle flow of energies within the energy body. This accounts for our strong natural likes and dislikes, when it comes to choosing the colors we wear, and those that surround us.This sensitivity varies, from person to person, depending upon how sensitive they are and how sensitive their aura is.Women, generally, have more delicate and sensitive auras than men. They are, therefore, far more sensitive to the effects of color, than men are. Color can have a strong effect on a very sensitive person. If they wear a color that clashes too badly with their aura, it can make them physically ill.The effect of color on the emotions is well known. Wall colors are carefully chosen, in hospitals and other institutions, to calm agitated people and put them at ease. Soft pastel shades of pink and blue are the most frequently used colors for this, because of their well-known calming effect.Basic Hue ClasificationThe basic hue of an aura is it's dominant color. This is the most visible color of the multiple energies generated by all the chakras (mixed together) creating a general, overall color. There are, of course, many different colors in any person's aura, but the basic hue is usually seen first.Many people suggest that people can be classified, as being a particular type of person, by the basic hue of their aura.
For example: 

Color red  Sensuality, vitality, energy. Orange Emotion.Yellow Personality power, mental power, intellect Green Spirituality, love, affinity with nature, natural healer Blue Highly spiritual, religious, natural teacher, healer Violet Very highly spiritual, psychic, clairvoyance, religious, teacher and healer

Gold Highly advanced spirituality and psychic abilities - an adept
I have found this method of classification to be both unfair to the person being classified, and extremely misleading. The basic meanings of the individual colors are well known - as above. I find the human aura to be such a complex and changeable engine, it just cannot be classified in such a simple way.For example: if a person, with a predominantly blue aura, is experiencing an emotional crisis, their aura will be flooded with large patches of orange. This is a temporary state only, and once the crisis is resolved, their aura will revert to it's natural blue.
There are so many things that can temporarily change the appearance of an aura - sometimes just for an hour or more. Devotional worship, for example, generates high minded feelings and deep spiritual love. An unstable, emotional, dominant and violent person, who's aura is, say, naturally red and orange, with streaks of black in it - can generate higher spiritual colors, during worship. These will temporarily flood their aura, giving them the appearance (to auric sight) of being a very spiritual person - but hiding their "true colors" and hence, their true nature.ExamplesJock: Jock was a young man I knew, several years ago. He was an extremely vital, sensitive man, but was very unstable, having a lot of problems. Jock was a deep thinker, and we would often expound upon the meaning of life and the nature of the universe, together. At times like this I would often see a lovely spiritual blue, surrounding him.Now, once Jock had a few drinks in him (alcohol), he could become extremely aggressive, violent and dangerous - at the drop of a hat. At times like this, I would see his aura change dramatically, in moments, to a bright, angry red, with big orange patches and black streaks in it. Not a trace of his original blue aura would remain. This, red, orange and black color, would stay with him, until he calmed down completely and sobered up.Dan: Dan was an old friend of mine, with a naturally green aura. When Dan has a problem, his mind goes into overdrive, trying to find a solution to his problem. His aura then changes to bright yellow, flooding strongly through his aura. This reverts to it's original green, very quickly, once he has found a solution. I have often observed this, while playing chess with him. Every time he gets into a sticky situation to the his aura yellow floods.Gardening: When I have been gardening - having a lot of physical contact with plants - the aura around my hands and forearms changes to a lovely green. This green fades away a few hours later. Close contact with plants seems to have an effect on the energy body. Maybe this is where the old saying comes from "Having a green thumb" - for gardening.These examples demonstrate the changeable nature of the human aura, in a very general way. An aura is a variable reflection of the energy activity going on within a person. This reflection is detected by the brow centre of the observer, and interpreted, as colored bands of light, by the sight centre of their brain. Health, mood, emotion, strong thoughts, drugs, and other influences, stimulate many different energy patterns in the primary and secondary energy centres. These different patterns change the overall quality of the energy being reflected into the aura. This generates many different colors - which changes the auras dominant colors.

Clothing

It is impossible to get a clear view of an aura through clothing. The auric colors given off by any colored clothing react with the wearer's aura. This causes interference that blocks and changes the natural flow of energies within an aura. For example: a blue shirt will flood the wearer's natural aura with yellow - changing it's appearance.Even neutral colored clothing will block and dim an aura - making it dull and difficult to see. If, for example, you observe the aura of a person wearing a red shirt: their aura will contain a great deal of green. This shows why bare skin is best, in order to get a clear view of an aura.When a colored material is worn, the band of color seen close to the material is the reverse auric color of that color. The aura's real colors will be seen building up from the outer edge of that color. The reverse auric color of the material, and the true colors of the living aura, affect each other - changing their natural colors.